Feel or felt ?

Good question, Emaglobye, and welcome to the Grammar Exchange.

I would stay with "actually feel", or even better, "am actually feeling".  The antecedent phrase looks and sounds like past tense, but it's actually subjunctive mood.  I realize this can be a bit confusing, but this is a device to suggest a possible but as yet contrary-to-fact present situation:

You aren't asking me this, but if you did, I would tell you ...

I would not go so far as to say that "actually felt" is incorrect, but the fact that it is in a parallel construction with "try" makes it very awkward.  As it stands, though, the sentence needs a conjunction before the "try" clause, or it needs to be separated out as a sentence on its own.  But if the guy is that depressed, I'm not going to mess with him.

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